Something in the air Friday, May 2 2008
ex-husband and insinuator and philosopher and tales of woe dating, insinuator, philosopher, ex-husband 9:22 am
There is something in the air here at One Date Wonderland, and I would seriously like to find something that will kill it. But, at least it makes for fun stories!
First it was my ex-husband. He reappeared and started trying to get back in touch to be “friends”. There some some blather about how it had been a year, tough choices were made, he was second-guessing. It was all very vomit-worthy. The third time I sent him packing I thought he was gone. (Especially since I told him he was being extremely rude to his live-in girlfriend of almost a year.) Until he IMed me a few days later. For the record? I simply ignored it.
Then it was The Philosopher. I think I have neglected to tell our story here, so I will save that for another time. Just know that we have been back and forth since November, although after a bad bedroom incident, I stopped communication. Still, he calls. Last night, he called. I am not responding.
Also last night, The Insinuator returned! He started IMing me, and I seriously could not be bothered to even answer. This is how the one-sided exchange proceeded:
Him: Hi Jane long time no hear, how are you?
Him: I hope you still remember me
Him: hope you are not ignoring me… I just want to say hello, thats all
Him: ok bye then
Yes, bye then. Please don’t come back.
Are we quite finished now? Because I truly could not be less interested in any of these men. Fascinating how I could have an unattractive, passive aggressive guy who’s bad in bed any day of the week. But a real live decent man? Yeah right. Anyway, pass the Lysol. Or something.


May 2, 2008 at 10:35 am
Why is that the “vomit-worthy” men keep coming back. But the “OMG hot, I want to rip your clothes off, spend 4 straight days with you w/out speaking & eating only when we are exsausted” men never seems to call?
That is the question of the ages. If I knew the answer, I wouldn’t be a One Date Wonder anymore!
May 6, 2008 at 10:18 am
Perhaps your ex and mine could hang out? They seem like they’re both about the same calibre.
May 8, 2008 at 2:14 pm
ha..ha.ha.. that’s like “Tattoo Guy” for me. Except his IM was a one sided conversation that lasted for over an HOUR at 2am!! Needless to say, I was asleep. Didn’t stop him though. *snort!*
Nice! Did he get increasingly irate as he yammered on? Because that would be comedy gold!